Support for parents who want to raise resilient, independent people.
What is a Parenting coach?
Parenting today comes with an overwhelming flood of books, podcasts, webinars, and online advice. I see parenting questions asked constantly on social media—but who’s actually answering them? And where do you even begin with all the available resources?
As a parenting coach, I work with parents at all stages—from the early toddler years to the challenges of adolescence. I partner with you one-on-one to understand what you’re currently facing, then create a plan that’s personalized to your family, your lifestyle, and your values. This isn’t a one-size-fits-all approach.
With my background in Montessori education, I help you become a more intentional parent—one who is raising resilient, independent, curious, and compassionate children who can think critically and solve problems with confidence.
A Little Bit About Malita…
Name pronounced Ma-lee-da
She/Her
Montessorian and director of a Montessori preschool
Master’s degree in Elementary Education
Experienced working with diverse communities, including teaching newly arrived refugee families about parenting in the U.S.
Lifelong learner with a deep belief in growth mindset
Passionate about teaching children in age-appropriate, respectful ways to become resilient, confident, independent problem solvers who feel a true sense of belonging
Two-time breast cancer survivor, which shaped my perspective and deepened my appreciation for how precious our time with children truly is
Emotions are welcome here—I love teaching about them, and I believe crying is healthy and never something to fear or avoid
Connecting with others—and connecting people to each other—is my superpower
Deeply inspired by the work and wisdom of Fred Rogers and Maria Montessori
Why a Sapling?
My husband is an avid gardener. We have a number of trees in our yard including peach and apple trees.
Whenever he planted a baby tree, I noticed he put a stake next to it. He explained that if the stake is too close to the tree, it won’t grow because it holds it back. However, if the stake is too far from the tree, it may not have enough support and fall or break in the wind.
As the tree grows, the stake gets moved further and further away. Eventually, the tree becomes strong enough where the stake is no longer needed.
Wow. That hit me like a ton of bricks and I immediately thought about how that relates to parenting.
As parents, we are the stake. Our job is to offer just the right amount of support—close enough to help our children stay upright, but far enough to let them grow on their own.
And as they grow, our support changes. We step back. We adapt. We quietly move into the background. And then comes the beauty: when your child stands tall and strong—confident, resilient, independent—it fills your heart with pride.
And if you’ve raised them in soil rich with love, empathy, and encouragement, they choose to keep you in their lives as adults.
That is my parenting philosophy. That is Sapling Parenting.
